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Feeling of losing Manhood

My husband is 42 and I am 34. He had a radical prostatectomy a year and a half ago. Our love life has reached a stagnation point. He avoids talking about his erectile dysfunction difficulties. Due to lack of intimacy I feel so emotionally void that I feel like I'm getting to a point where I might break. I have told him many times that it's not about physical sex, but emotional closeness that is important to me. Am I being selfish? I know that I should be very grateful that his cancer was detected so early and that he has an excellent chance of it not recurring, but I don't know how much more of this I can handle. He tells me that I don't know what it feels like for him to loose his manhood, but I feel very much like I've lost my womanhood.

Submitted by: Jennifer, LA
Date: April 13, 2005

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